I Experience kanye Process Ukufa, ngo-Walter Semkiw
I noGrace ngo Dying , by uKathleen Dowling Singh
Article ngu Walter Semkiw, MD
UKathleen Dowling Singh utlole incwadi, I noGrace ngo Dying , ku inqubo yokufa ngenxa unesifo esingelapheki, lapho ngamunye isikhathi ukubhekana kusondela ukufa. Lokhu kwehluke kakhulu ukuba ukufa okuzumayo, lapho abantu musa kwadingeka isikhathi ukucabanga inqubo yokufa. I noGrace ngo Dying kuyinto zefilosofi, wordy futhi kunzima kancane ukufunda. Kulesi sihloko, ngiyaqaphela distill imiqondo encwadini Singh kanye neqhaza ulwazi lwami ubufakazi wokuphindukuzalwa ongapheli, okuyinto eziqukethwe incwadi yami, Ukuzalwa Ngokusha . Ngaphezu kwalokho, mina ukwabelana ngolwazi ukuthi ngiye ugxile ekusebenzeni ngomoya zihlakaniphile kokuba angenele lo trance naphakathi Kevin Ryerson.
ukuphakama
Singh ugomela ngokuthi njengoba umuntu esingamahlalakhona lisondela okwamanje okufa onguSathane ngabanye lithola okuhlangenwe nakho ebonisa afana ukuqonda okuthile yogis noma amakhosi ezingokomoya lokufinyelela ngokusebenzisa neminyaka umkhuba nokuzindla. Lokhu ebonisa limelela ekubumbaneni noNkulunkulu. Lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho liqukethe:
- Okuyo Yonke Indawo-umuzwa wokuba ka ukuyo yonke indawo
- A umqondo ubunye nayo yonke indalo
- Imizwa ukuthula nenjabulo
- Okwenzeka elintantayo ngaphezu esezokufa nge ikhono lokubona izenzakalo ezenzeka emhlabeni umzimba womuntu befa.
Sinesithakazelo esikhulu, kukhona icala ukuphindukuzalwa enyatheliswa Ian Stevenson, MD wase-University of Virginia lapho lokhu nakho ukufa, kanye nakho kokuba kabusha, kuchazwa ngokuningiliziwe enkulu. Ukuze ubuyekeze lokhu kufa lelandzisako elithakazelisayo, sicela uye ku:
Lokhu ukuqonda inqubo yokufa anganika induduzo enkulu kubo bonke ababhekene ukwehluleka umsebenzi zomzimba. Kulabo abaqondi ukwazi ukuthi komuntu futhi ubuntu esindayo lapho umuntu efa, le izigaba ukufa kungase kube buhlungu futhi inselele. UKathleen Singh uchaza izigaba ezintathu, lihamba ngokwengqondo inqubo nokufa kwalabo ababezihambisa nge esibulalayo, okuyizinto Chaos , Surrender futhi ukuphakama . Ake sihlole ngamunye wale izigaba.
Chaos kanye Kubler-Ross Izigaba Kokufa Dying
Isigaba of Chaos iqala lapho umuntu uyayalwa ukuthi unesifo esibulalayo futhi ukuthi bayokufa. Chaos ihlanganisa izigaba sokufa futhi uyafa owasungulwa Swiss wezifo zengqondo Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, MD, okuyinto, njengoba kuchazwe ku-Wikipedia, yilezi:
Ukuphika Ngeminye kulesi sigaba, umuntu okholelwa ukuthi uphethwe ngandlela-thile iphutha futhi banamathela ezingamanga, ngokoqobo akukhetha.
Ulaka -Uma muntu uyaqaphela ukuthi ekuphikeni ayikwazi ukuqhubeka, ziba ekhungathekile, ikakhulukazi abantu abasondelene nabo. Izimpendulo ezithile ngokwengqondo umuntu othola lokhu isigaba kungaba: “Kungani kwehlela mina? Akulungile! Kungenzeka kanjani lokhu kimi? Ubani okufanele asolwe? Kungani lokhu kungase kwenzeke? ”
Bargaining -I esiteji okwesithathu kuhilela ngethemba lokuthi umuntu ungagwema imbangela lusizi. Ngokuvamile, kuba ingxoxo i lokuphila okweluliwe senziwa exchange zemikhuba emihle yokuphila ngilunge. Ngokwesibonelo: “Ngiqinisile ngiyakutjela bona ukuba ube umuntu ongcono.”
Ukucindezeleka – “Ngithathe sad kangaka, kungani ingazihlupha yini? Ngizofika bafe ngokushesha, ngakho yini iphuzu? Kungani kufanele uqhubeke uphila? “Phakathi esigabeni sesine, ngamunye ephelelwa yithemba ngesikhathi ukuqashelwa yokufa kwabo. Kuleli zinga, umuntu angase abe buthule, ungenqaba izivakashi futhi bachitha isikhathi esiningi ngengoma kanye enyukubele.
Ukwamukelwa – “Kuzoba kuzolunga. Angikwazi ukulwa naso. Ngingaqeda kanye nokukulungiselela. “Kulesi sigaba sokugcina, ngamunye buhlanganisa abantu abafa ngenxa yesono sabo. Umuntu befa iba ezolile futhi eqala umbono zokuhlola ngokuphila.
Chaos, ngamunye uKathleen Singh, sihlanganisa izigaba ezengeziwe, okuyinto yena uchaza njengoba:
Lokho -I ngabanye ebhekene nokufa esingamahlalakhona uzizwa ekhishwa inyumbazane ngalolo labo eduze kwabo, abangaqashiwe ebhekene nokufa, nakwazi ukuthi isimo ayasondela ukufa kufana. Lokho lihlotshaniswa umuzwa wokuba nesizungu.
Anxiety- Kuyaqondakala ukuthi befa ngabanye nakho anxiousness mayelana isiphetho sabo.
Yithemba -I umuntu befa zibheke ukulahlekelwa engaziwa ithemba, okungaholela bacindezeleka kakhulu.
Noma Ungakhanda Amacebo -Prior kuleli qophelo, oyedwa ekumelaneni umphumela ongenakugwenywa isifo esibulalayo. Kuleli qophelo, umuntu lukhipha nobheka ukuthi bazokufa. Lesi sinyathelo ifaniswa nezimbewu Kubler-Ross esiteji sokwamukela.
Ingebhe Engulfment -Lokhu eside akukhona kahle ichazwe encwadini Singh, kodwa incazelo yami ukuthi umuntu wesaba ukuthi ungubani yabo ngabanye ngeke usaba khona, ukuthi ungubani lomuntu abazokwazi noma ziyoncibilika inhlalakahle kaNkulunkulu noma ukuba yize. Lokhu kwesaba is obenziwa Buddhist wumgomo ka anatta -okungukuthi kungekho ezingaguquki, self unomphela, akukho umphefumulo noma ngokuphikelela essence ezintweni eziphilayo.
Ngenhlanhla, ubufakazi yokuphindukuzalwa ubonisa ukuthi anatta ngumqondo amanga, njengoba izimo ongapheli, kuhlanganise nalezo enyatheliswa Ian Stevenson, MD wase-University of Virginia, abonisa ukuthi abantu kabusha nge banemikhuba efanayo ubuntu, izinkanuko, emathalenta izici ngisho efanayo ebusweni. imiphefumulo yethu okungenakufa kukhona izakhiwo amandla ukuthi alondoloze ubunikazi zethu siqu. Ukuze ufunde kabanzi, iya ku:
Ubufakazi kanye neZimiso zeNhlangano Ukuphindukuzalwa: Ukuqonda Ukuphila Esikhathini Esidlule
Ukubuyisela
UKathleen Singh isebenzisa ikhotheshini kusukela uJesu waseNazaretha wasithatha okushiwo kulesi sigaba, okuyinto: “Hhayi intando yami, kodwa mayenziwe intando yakho.” Lokhu umaluju kuNkulunkulu kuholela esigabeni of ukuphakama, okwakubekelwa kuchaziwe ngenhla.
UMoya uMuntu Ahtun Re futhi ebonisa njengendlela State of “Lucid Zwakala”
Enginakho inzuzo ukuqonda okukhethekile kamoya njengoba Bengisebenza ne Kevin Ryerson njalo ngenyanga kusukela 2001. Kevin iyithuluzi trance, lokusho kutsi simo sakhe ungaya kusimo nokuzindla ukuvumela zidalwa zomoya zilawule umzimba wakhe ukuze le mimoya bangaxhumana abantu. Ikakhulukazi, iziteshi Kevin umoya kokuba okuthiwa Ahtun Re, oye wabonisa ikhono lokwenza esidlule Ubunikazi ukuphila nge izinga eliphakeme lokunemba. Ngaphezu kwalokho, Ahtun Re ine Isikhwama encyclopedic yolwazi. Ahtun Re iyona nenhlalakahle uhlakaniphe ngempela futhi onesihawu engake ngahlangana nazo. Ukuze ufunde kabanzi mayelana nomsebenzi ngenzile nge Kevin, iya ku:
Ryerson-Semkiw Ukuphindukuzalwa Ucwaningo
Ukuba ukufinyelela umthombo enjalo esingokomoya esiyingqayizivele mina, wanyathelisa incwadi ehlanganisa inkhulumomphendvulwano zami Ahtun Re mayelana imibuzo “big picture”, efana nokuthi ubunjalo izwe elingokomoya kufana. It kuvela kukhona amazinga amaningi noma ezindizeni emimoya, okutshengisa okwashiwo uJesu: “Endlini kaBaba kukhona izindlu eziningi,” Le ncwadi inelungelo:
Umsuka Soul kanye Injongo Ukuphindukuzalwa
Ngo Umsuka Soul, ngabuza Ahtun Re yini isimo sakhe wokuba kufana. Wasabela ukuthi khona kwakhe emhlabeni umoya is best wachazwa njengomuntu “Lucid Ecstasy.” Leli gama, ngiyakholwa, kuyindlela enhle ukuchaza esiteji ukuphakama.
Inqubo Ukufa, ukuphakama futhi Rebirth: Ngo lokuvala
Kuyithemba lami ukuthi ukuqonda lokho okwehlela ukufa, ukuphakama futhi kuzalwa kabusha kwashesha futhi uzokwenza kokushiya umzimba ekupheleni esibulalayo kancane esibuhlungu. Mhlawumbe, lolu lwazi kuzosiza ngisho abantu ukubuka ukufa njengoba umcimbi kudinga ukugubha ethule, uma kubhekwa ukuthi ukufa kuholela kwesinye isahluko, omunye adventure, intuthuko komphefumulo womuntu.